God desires THE BEST and ONLY THE VERY BEST for us. In the Cross of Jesus Christ God manifestes His LOVE for us. He wants that we belong to Him totally, without Him we are nothing. If we all just knew.His incredible caring for us, and how much He loves us, we would give up everything and run to Him, and do everything what He commands in the Bible. The only desire we would have is to please HIM..and LIVE ONLY FOR HIM--we would only have eyes for HIM, nothing else would matter, but HIM. And This is HIS WILL for us .

ONE WITH GOD
If you feel like God is closing all the doors on you, and not because of sin, and you feel like you are losing everything, and He is putting you through a period of humility and submission (Look at Jesus' life--30 years of submission before His 3 years of ministry), and you feel you are losing your individuality, remember that this is all happening because God is making you one with Him and preparing you so that He can use you on earth for His purposes, not yours. Submit to Him and His workings on you at all cost.